Na chhute yaariyan...

This post is dedicated to the best company and the best friendship I ever had..Yes..to Mr he...

From past few days ,I am living in my college times but with everything else faded,everyone else paused except we two.my thoughts are oscillating like a pendulum.And it's not my fault also.we have loads of such beautiful moments.moments where we have cracked jokes together,moments where you have teased me,moments when u have made me smile with my teary eyes and ofcourse the moments where we were no less than each other in flirting .

Everything else is in front of me from the ganna ka juice to bike rides to bala ji,the long drives or the talks we had in Osho ashram,the talks about your ambitions,the flashes and glashes and that jealousy if someone else was made to sit with you on the bike and our days n months long fights.why those 30 minutes of bike ride was used to be so boring and so long if I was made to sit with someone else.Today i am on a lifelong journey and the company is being missed.

The beauty of our friendship will never fade even if I turn 80.and those memories will always bring smile to my face duks.

Being the bahu -Protocol

How it would feel to you if you get married in a village in Bihar,where the tradition is still alive of keeping the  bahus fully covered from head to toe ,sir pe pallu and they are supposed to avoid any eye contact with anybody.And laughter should be an alien term for them.

I was luckier as I got married in a literate family ,so I was allowed to wear salwar suits and dupatta served the purpose of sir ka pallu but the rest of the rules remained same :D.

And then comes the situation when I have to get a photo clicked for my adhaar card.Here I was sitting in a small shop on the road side in front of a guy who was a complete stranger to me ,but he knew my husband and my in-laws very well and he knew d fact that I was d bahu and that I and that guy both of us are supposed to follow an unsaid protocol ;).

As per the protocol ,I should not be making any eye contacts.and then that moment came when he had to click my pic ,I removed the pallu looked at d camera straight and I was thinking of smiling a bit so that my adhaar card should finally be a bit presentable :P but the whole situation was so hilarious that I broke into laughter ,but again the protocol and somehow I managed to have a presentable pic clicked which clearly shows how hard I have tried to not break the so called protocol...Being "The bahu" -protocol :D

The most romantic chat we had!!

Ab faqat ho yehi..
wo rahe mujhme hin..
ho juda kehne ko..
bichhde na par kabhi..

I was in my trainings when i got a call from my brother asking me to book tickets for patna coz i was supposed to meet your family.The very moment I waited for.Every time I used to ask you what if ur family says no to me and you used to reply why they wud say no.And the very moment I used to feel a new me in myself and the feelings in me was getting more n more stronh that yes you were the guy with whom i was going to spend whole of my life..I booked my tickets and a day later only I remember i was ready to fly to patna via kolkata from chennai.
I reached kolkata.hmmm kolkata ,completely new city for me but as u lived in kolkata I was loving everything I got to know about the city. A stay of 6 hours in chilling night at the airport but pyar ka bukhar jo tha it was capable enough to maintain the balance between the temperature outside and inside and in the morning at around 6 i was supposed to fly for patna.

As there was a very stormy weather in north during that time coz of the cyclone.yes !!!the cyclone,half of my love story ,this cyclone has ruined.i boarded the plane but there was chaos as we were getting the news that the flight may get canceled as the weather was not very good.A very furious day and a bit of adventurous also it was for me no doubt.I still remember and this I would definitely love to preserve in one of my blogs .I switched on my phone and pinged you.You asked me my whereabouts.You seemed concerned which made me happy :-P.and then when i was about to again switch off my cell you said "achha suno" i replied "hmm bolo" and then what the reply came was very tough to digest for me but after i read it i was on cloud 9.I could never imagine you as a romantic guy in your words the"mushy mushy" types hehe!!!The reply was "I missed you" omg!!!:-D:-*.And again i started chatting with you.I guess subah uthte hin tumne decide kar liya tha ki mujhe maar dalna h heart attack se.coz as usual meri kisi bakwas pe u got angry and u said "padega ek kaan k neeche" to which I dont know why I replied "aur kaan ke upar" and u said "kaan ke upar kiss :-*" . And your reply made me forget all the problems i had faced in my journey from chennai to kolkata till that moment !!and with my high pulse rate and audible heartbeat I switched off my phone and was ready to fly ....

Jab We Met!!

Sitting at my seat in office I am again as usual occupied with your thoughts.It is very much obvious also as its been four days i havnt toked to you and  which probably you would not have even noticed.I dont know why but i was getting this feeling that you are disturbed with something in your life and that being a freind i should not stop talking to you at this point of time but the fact is whether We talk or not oops I should correct it..whether I talk to you or not it hardly matters to you.chalu ho tum.You are controlling the beat of my hearts and you know it very perfectly what music it has to produce to make me go crazy.am I sounding like a Lady majnu?? :P..I surely need a psychiatrist.

Waited for almost a year and now with my clear mind I am happy declaring that Yes I am in love again..22nd July 2013 was the date when we first talked to each other.I am sure you know some totke as its been one year and i am still 24X7 occupied with your thoughts.

Our first meeting I still remember NEW TOWN bus stop :D.We met  and the first thing you asked  "ciggerette piyegi? " & first though which came in my mind was "piyegi?? he shud have said piyogi" :P but  i replied "haan :P".you asked the tapriwala in bengali for a cigerette,lit it n offered me :D.We shared the single cigerette and after we finished smoking you dint even realise that you made me run as we were not on road and were a part of Marathon 2014 to reach the autostand.Am I that boring???.How unique our first meeting was :D..I would have appeared very cool and normal to u but i only know what all chemical locha was going inside me.I am good in hiding all my tension and somehow i always manage to appear cool :D..sachchi bataun to I was very nervous.I was meeting you ..the guy I wanted to marry,the guy i was in love with and the guy to whom i had been talking from months and also it was the only scene where I had first met the family members and later was meeting the guy.Still I managed to scan you from top to bottom and you were looking great :).I dont know how I looked??? coz u dint speak a word about me.but that very day You almost stopped chatting with me so I am sure how beautiful i was looking that day :D.meri sabse badi problem hai I am very concious about my looks and most of the times I guess I am dissatisfied also :P.Anyways atleast I got to meet you which i never had thought i would be able to.and with a happy heart i returned to my place .but i am a very greedy soul and still wishing to meet you again probably September 2014..ahaan??

So many questions and the answer is with you..wait continues!!

Chennai to Kolkata

Huh!!My friends always say that my life resembles movies .ofcrse the bollywood movies as i still remember my moral and values ;) ..As i am 24.78 years old now so a new chapter got addded to my life."SHADI KA CHAPTER".And again no one but I was the only one to initiate ol dis.I strongly believe that life ke sare letters ko ignore kr do beta but ye "F" nai ignore hona chahye..a aan!!..give a pause to ur thinking ;)"F" for fun..aur sidhi-sadhi do life me hungama macha diya..MY BAD i agree.
so which movie should i relate this chapter to..mm chinikum ;)..lol.Guys!!Fall in love with ur family,fall in love with nature,fall in love with a child sitting beside you and doing crazy stufs wich takes u back to ur childhood,u can even fall in love with dogs but never ever fall for a man who is turning thirty u might end up hurting urself.;).filmy to hun mai,so i got attracted to a man wo bhi ek song ke chakkar me :D..I agree am a DUH.but I swear i enjoyed every bit of the chats we both did and everything i did for this shadi to happen in the last few months.A big decision it was this is what my friends used to tell me but for me I take it all very easy ;).Everytime i used to visit temples i used to pray "bhagwan jo acha ho wahi hona chahye".:D.And now i regret this prayer.Agar ye bura b tha to ye hona chahye tha.;) :D.
Again the question is.. m I in love ummmm... again?? haha.This cant be love if i easily move on.so I decided to give my self a few month's time to find out the answer.Very short story it was.There were flirtings,a bit of romance,my rona dhona and i think it is the end of the story.Ek zidd meri and my family had to suffer a lot of humiliations so finally  dont regret what ol happened and its a hapy ending for sure;).Though HERO-HEROINE  mile nai ;).It all continued for 3 months i guess par shadi ka bhoot to utar gaya by-god!! Now looking forward to whats next is there  waiting for me to keep my life full of "F"s.. :D. Finally today I am publishing this blog which was lying from last 6-7 months in my draft.

Na chhute yaariyan..2013 diaries

Uhh!!mr.he from the last two posts u got the whole attention so for  today let me focus on some other intrstng thngs dat were happenin in ma life..
wen i came to pune i stayed in the girls hostel.it was about 2 kms from college and there used to be a shortcut from yhe backside of our hostel which got blocked later.my room no was 117.i was shifted in a 3 bedded room.so few new faces came into my life on the very first day only.our burden oops warden mrs.kala-ka-bra dis is wat we used to call her,kaka (achhe wale and the other one behre wale) and my two roomies shree and janvi.
So a new character was getting introduced to my story and i was unknown to all this.she was cute..she was innocent ..and those dimples were cherrry on the cake .it made her look more cute than she actually was and those big eyes .god blesses every person wid  these eyes for the purpose of making them able to see and appreciate him for the beauty of nature he has created on earth but her eyes had a different purpose which i later discovered.when ever we used to discuss something very serious she used those eyes as a marker to underline the imp lines of our conversation lol.(sorry i wont tok much about u here coz i hav plans to keep u like this only,cute And innocent for some time :-P) .ladai ,jhagde gossips, xams and dont knw how we developed a very special bonding .there were also few people who wer dere in my stry but stayed for a very short period,did their roles and disappeared.i wud luv to tok a lil about two of dem,annie and tanya.annie was der to update my knowledge about sex,sex and sex and yes it was annie only coz of whom i was able to have my morning brkfst til the the period i stayed in hostel.i still rembr d way how she usd to pull me up and sit between me n my pillow giving me no space to sleep and wake me up for the brkfst :-D.(if my mom comes to know about dis she wud be really inpressed wid u swtie.)and then came a new girl in our hstel.she was a late admission and so i develpd a sympathy for her but den we bcame gud frnds.though none of my frends and specialy annie like her but i somehow managed to keep them together for few mnths.m a very lazy ass and careless also and "mujhme insano wale koi lakshan nai"(this is wat my mom  usd 2 say).actually there was no laundry facility avlble in our hostel and we wer supposed to wash our clothes by ourself nly.And dis rule made me get intrdcd to a new chemistry wid no chemical formulas but horrible reactions taking place wid ma clothes.no one but only i can tel u wat kinda reaction take place if u leave ur clothes soaked in bucket for one day,two days,3 days o even more dan dat also.those creatures i wil never forget who used to fill ma bucket making ma clothes olmst unvisible.within a month only i started feelng d shrtage of ma undies as all were thrown into dustbin aftr goin thru all dose chemical reactions..it was then tanya came into my life n tot me bout d signifcnce of warm water and dettol in washing clothes.haha..everyone enters ur life wid a purpose ,serves it and then goes and likewise she was also gone...

To b cntinued..

Na chhute yaariyan..2013 diaries

Clock is ticking exactly the same time when i stopped writing yesterday.its 1:22 am,actually very late but again your memories..uhhh!!I actually dont get what their intentions are but everytime they come they leave  a smile on my face .:-)
So...Pam's bday was a start and the next day I had to give u my contri in the expenses for her bday celebration as i divided the total expenses among u,me and mammu..:-D.(mr.he u know na mai hisab ekdum barobar lgati hn :-D).I guess it was in this process i must have got your contact number.Anand book store ,every viitian knows it from where we used to buy our engg books on the discount of 15% and return it on 85% discount( if am not mistaken) after the sem gets over and before the results are out :-P:-P.that money was also a source of income for we hostalites lol...but ye b bht kam logo ke naseeb me hota tha (and obviously u were not one of them :-D.u know why am saying this ;-)).so when i was on my way to college I saw you near anand book store.haha firse wahi bike rahi hogi MH-24,2322 :-D..and destination b wahi raha hoga bibwewadi your best frend's flat..anyways the moment i saw you i called out your name and u stoppd your bike by the road side and then without wasting(see i spelled it right:-D) any time i handed u the money and u smiled.it was a very chhotu meet hardly of 5 min.
luckily i am blessed wid a very good memory and i remember ol dese bakwas part also :-P.

to be continued....